Blog is moving!

by Jan on June 27, 2011

It’s been almost a long time since my last. The first 6 months of 2011 was pretty exciting. There were lots of little side projects to keep me busy and of course Al and I had to prepare for our wedding which happened just a week ago. Now that everything is over, I’m thinking of taking a few weeks to relax and freshen up before starting a new series of projects.

To mark our beginning together, I’m move my personal blog over to our shortynme.com domain. There I will post about our everyday muses, recipes and my path to learning photography. Drop by to say hi at our new blog.

From a Marketer To A Baker?

by Jan on December 7, 2010

I had a very engaging conversation with a friend recently on the topic of career change. Her husband is planning to quit his job and go back to school full time to change his career. This kind of got me thinking about what I had always wanted to do – baking and selling my baked goods. This might sound strange as it had nothing to do with what I studied in university or what I’m doing now, but I’ve had this little dream of opening my own bakery/cafe for the past 10 years.

I still want to see if I can make this dream come true, or some form of it. However, I’m also a person that likes the feeling of security, having a stable income is a big deal for me. Especially now that we have to pay off the wedding and in the process of getting our own place, which means paying off mortgage. I feel that it might be too risky to drop everything and go back to school, with no guarantee that I’ll get a job after. So after giving it some thought, I think what I’ll do is finish up the wedding and settle down first (after the move and all that), then work on a plan to get this dream started. It’ll need a lot of motivation on my part, since I’m easily distracted with video games (#1 distraction!) and other “adventures” such as fooding and travelling.

Central Square Girl?

by Jan on December 2, 2010

Ok the title is a little misleading but I’ll explain about that later. This post is about an incident I witnessed last month while driving in the Central Square parking lot. For those that don’t know where it is, Central Square is the little mall complex right across from Aberdeen Centre in Richmond. Here’s the Google Map location.


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I happened to be at Lido for lunch with a couple of friends and took the Hazelbridge Way exit on our way out. While heading towards the exit, there was a Land Rover 2 cars a head of us and a van (can’t remember what make it was) that’s on the opposite traffic direction. I couldn’t see who signaled first but it appeared both of these cars were waiting for the same parking spot.

Once the parking spot became available, the van pulled in. Now this had happened to me before and I was furious. I think I cursed the driver for a good 2-3 minutes while I storm off to look for another spot. However, the driver of the Land Rover took another way of dealing with this. She pulled up behind the van (thank god for that because now we can finally move towards the exit, was stuck there for about 2 minutes), got out and opened the van’s passenger door and started yelling at the driver inside. I couldn’t hear what was going on but from her expression, it’s probably not “please give me my spot back”.

By this time I was at the exit waiting for a chance to pull out and from the rear view mirror, I saw she got back into the Land Rover and to my surprise, the van pulled out. Now I’m really curious as to what she had said to the driver of the van. However, I think I would probably do the same if I was in the same situation. Who knows what she’d do if I don’t give her the spot?

Ok now as for the name. As my friends and I watch this unfold, we were thinking “Hey lets take a video and post it on YouTube!” Obviously we had watched too many of those videos from Hong Kong posted by people that happened to witness “interesting” scenes, like the guy doing some kung fu thing on the MTR and the boy who wouldn’t give up the empty seat next to him on the bus. The videos have mostly been named by the location plus either “boy”, “girl”, “old man”, “grandpa” … etc. So as a joke, we thought we’d call this incident the “Central Square Girl” or “Lido Girl”, lol.

Quest: Not Serve Shark Fin Soup At Wedding Banquet

by Jan on November 15, 2010

I’ve finally started revisiting my wedding planning schedule last month and had made a timeline of the items we still need to cover. While starting the wedding planning again, I had came across resources about shark finning and how people have decided to not serve shark fin soup at weddings and banquets in order to show their concern about this issue.

So I started to research more information about shark finning, from reading articles (Vancouver Sun did a series on Sharks recently) to watching documentary films (Fins and Shark Water), to see what the big deal is. Isn’t shark fin just food? If you do not know what shark finning is like, here’s a video:

Can you imagine someone chop off your limps and throw you out on the streets to die? That’s probably how the shark feels after its fins were cut off.

But they are just food, like chickens, pigs, cows…etc, right? Why should we care?

Yes, I agree, sharks are just like the fish we eat. However, just slicing off their fins and leaving them to die in the ocean is not sustainable at all. What if we only chop off chicken feet or wings and throw away the rest of the chicken?

But there must be lots of sharks in the ocean, just like all the other fish! We don’t need to worry.

I think this is a misconception. There’s a growing list of shark species being endangered or near extinction because of finning and long-lining. Here’s a short documentary “Fin” by Claire Garner, Josefina Bergsten, Andy Limond and Alex Hofford which had won the People’s Choice Award from “I Shot Hong Kong” Film Festival 2009:

Fin from alexhofford on Vimeo.

I hope you had as much laughs as I did when I watched “Fin” because of the ridiculous comments by the Chinese shark fin vendors, like “shark sashimi” or “if we don’t eat sharks they’ll eat all the fish!” (Is he trying to imply that they are the “good guys”?)

I’ve also watched Shark Water. It’s an excellent documentary on sharks. Since I’ve learned all these information about shark finning, I’ve decided that to spread the word about this issue, it’d be a good idea to not serve shark fin soup at our wedding. I’ve talked to Al and our parents about it (read it here at my wedding notebook). Most of them are supportive but they still don’t understand why I’ve decided to not serve the soup since:

a) the restaurant will most likely not reduce the price on the menu even if you substitute it with another soup

b) since it’s already on the menu why not just eat it! the older generations probably doesn’t care about the unsustainable part of it anyway.

Well, my point is we could use our wedding banquet to spread the word about how unsustainable it is to consume shark fin. I understand that it has been in the Chinese history for many many years. But just because it is a tradition, it doesn’t mean it’s “right”. I also have to make my point clear on the fact that I’m not promoting that eating shark fin soup is a bad thing. The soup itself is fine. It is how we obtain the ingredients to make the soup that bothers me. If they didn’t fin those sharks and left them to die in the ocean; if they’d use a sustainable way to obtain the shark fins (and make use of the rest of the shark) I think it’s fine to consume shark fin soup. But the way they currently do it just doesn’t sit right with me. Wouldn’t it be sad when your children, grand children or great grand children read about sharks in books and ask you where they can see them and you can only reply “Sharks are all dead, dear. We ate them for their fins and now they are extinct, just like the dinosaurs.”

I’m still working on finding alternatives to shark fin soup for our wedding. I know both our parents still thinks I’m a little crazy for doing this but I hope they (and our guests) will understand once we explain to them the reason behind not serving shark fin soup. Wish me luck!

Personal Cards Update

by Jan on October 16, 2010

The cards I created about 2 weeks ago are here! I got them printed at Juke Box Print Shop with the special: 1000 cards for $59. The cards were printed on 14pt card stock with a matte finish. They looked great! The only thing that was a bit off was the colour, it looked a lot darker on print. This is probably my fault as I forgot to give them the CMYK numbers. Plus colours show up a little different on each monitor so I was expecting it to be a bit off.

Now that our cards are printed, time to hand them out when ever we can since we have 1,000 cards each to give out. Haha.



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